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Connecting trees into a forest

Join your tree to a relative's tree through a person you have in common, and choose exactly what each family can see of the other.

⏱ 20 minutes🎯 Intermediate

In this lesson you will learn

  • What a forest is, and when to use one
  • How to connect the same person across two trees
  • How the other family accepts, and what each side chooses to show
  • How to read the Forests page and a whole forest on one screen
  • How to control who can find your trees, and how to disconnect

What is a forest, and why?

Your cousin keeps her own tree. So does your uncle. When the same person is in two trees, you can connect them. The connected trees become a forest, and you can see everyone together on one screen.

Nothing is merged or changed

A connection only joins what you see. Each family keeps its own tree and its own people. Nobody can edit the other family's tree through a connection. If the two trees disagree about a person's parents, each side chooses which parents to show.

Connect a person to another tree

You need to be an owner or manager of your tree. Pick a person who is in both trees.

  1. Open your tree and select the person: on a phone press and hold them, on a computer click them.

  2. Choose Connections. If they are not connected yet, a message says so.

    A person who is not yet connected to another tree
    A person who is not yet connected to another tree
  3. Tap Connect to another tree.

  4. The list you first see holds only people in trees you can open: yours, ones you manage and ones shared with you. To connect to someone else's family, type the person's name (3 letters or more) in the search box: trees whose owners allow being found appear then. Names are matched loosely, so a slightly different spelling is found.

  5. Tap the right person. A label tells you whether the other tree is one you can open, or Needs approval (it belongs to someone else).

Searching for "aisha": a match in the Lim Family tree, which needs approval
Searching for "aisha": a match in the Lim Family tree, which needs approval
  1. Check the confirmation screen. It shows both people side by side with their parents, and "What will happen": nothing in either tree changes, and the person appears as one in the connected view.

  2. Under "What to show of … to people who cannot open the other tree" tick what you are happy to share (see the next section).

  3. If the other tree belongs to someone else, a note reminds you that what is seen through the connection also depends on that owner (what they share, and the forest agreement). You cannot change that for them.

  4. Tap Connect them.

The confirmation: what will happen, and what to show
The confirmation: what will happen, and what to show

Choosing what the other family can see

People who can already open your tree always see everything in it. This choice is only about people in the other family's tree. Each person's connection has its own list of tick boxes. At first only the first word of the name is shown.

Tick boxWhat the other family sees
PhotoThe person's portrait
Full nameThe whole name. Left unticked, only the first word of the name is shown.
Birth date, Death dateThe dates
Pictures, audio and videoThe person's gallery, read-only
Tree nameThe name of your tree. Hidden unless you tick it.
My whole treeEvery person of your tree can be seen by the connected family, each with only the details you ticked. Without it, only the people near the connection are seen. Connections made before this option was added keep that behaviour until you change them.
Contact, Residence, Hobbies, Education, SportsThose groups of extra details
You can change it any time

Open the person's Connections, and each connection has its own tick boxes. You can also set your default choices for new connections in Profile and settings → Connected trees (lesson 12).

Nothing is lost when two people are joined. A person who is in two connected trees is shown once, with the details, pictures and recordings of both put together (a tree you cannot open adds only what that family chose to share). If the two trees spell the name or record a date differently, the panel shows the other version too (Also named, Also recorded as born).

Which portrait do I see? If the same person has a photo in more than one connected tree, you choose which one you see in your own connected view: open the person and tap Choose portrait (the same choice is in the person's edit form). Automatic goes back to the nearest tree's photo. Built-in avatars are not offered, only real photos, and only those that family shares.

The forest agreement: who sees beyond one step

By default a connected family sees only the trees linked straight to it. If you want the whole forest to be able to see your tree, give the forest agreement. It is a setting of the tree itself: open the tree, tap the gear at the top, and switch on Let the whole connected family see this tree. You are also offered it when you connect a person or accept a request.

The gear of a tree: share it, and the two settings for connected families. A manager sees the same switches, greyed out, with On or Off beside each.
The gear of a tree: share it, and the two settings for connected families. A manager sees the same switches, greyed out, with On or Off beside each.

You will not have to remember it. The two switches of a tree, Being found and the Forest agreement, appear exactly where they matter, with a line saying what happens if one is off:

The switches are the same everywhere, so a change in one place shows in the others, on every device that can open the tree. Only the tree's owner can change them: a manager sees them greyed out, with On or Off beside each, so they know the current state. Your tree cards show them too: a lit magnifier means relatives can find the tree by name, a lit people mark means the whole connected family can see it, and a dim crossed-out mark means it is off.

While connecting a person: what to show, and the forest agreement with its explanation
While connecting a person: what to show, and the forest agreement with its explanation

The other family accepts

A connection to a tree owned by someone else is a request. Nothing is joined until the other family says yes.

  1. The owner (or a manager) of that tree sees a yellow bar on the Forests page: "Connection requests waiting", and a yellow number on the Forests button.

  2. They tap the bar and see who is asking, for which person, and what the other side shows.

  3. They choose what their side shows and tap Accept, or Decline.

The yellow bar tells a tree owner a request is waiting
The yellow bar tells a tree owner a request is waiting
The request: they choose what to show, then accept or decline
The request: they choose what to show, then accept or decline

You are told straight away when your request is accepted or declined. A request you made waits under Requests I sent, with how long ago you sent it. A grey bar on the Forests page (Requests I sent, waiting for an answer) opens that list, and so does Open requests in Profile & settings → Connected trees.

The Forests page

Tap Forests in the bottom bar. Every group of trees that are joined together, and that you can open, is one card: the trees in it (each in its own colour), the number of people, and when it last changed.

The Forests page. Each card is one forest.
The Forests page. Each card is one forest.

Tap a card to open the whole forest on one screen. At the bottom right of each card are two round buttons: the star pins the forest to the top of the list (tap it again to unpin), and the picture button opens the forest's shared memories.

Chips with a dashed outline are trees of other families that the forest shows you although you cannot open them; you see only what they share. They are the same trees you see when you open the forest.

A pin is yours alone and follows the forest: if a tree joins or leaves it, it stays pinned.

The Forests page uses the same search box as the trees page, at the top of the screen (the yellow number beside it counts your forests). It finds a forest by the name of one of its trees, or by a person in them, by name or by any detail you may see, and shows who matched under the forest.

Searching the Forests page for "penang": the forest shows who matched, found in details
Searching the Forests page for "penang": the forest shows who matched, found in details

Reading a forest

A forest of five trees on one screen
A forest of five trees on one screen
One tree lit up: Zainab's Ibrahim Roots
One tree lit up: Zainab's Ibrahim Roots

When a forest gets big

A forest with many people becomes hard to read on a phone. Three things help, and Asal Ku remembers them for you, forest by forest. Nobody else sees what you fold or hide.

Two branches folded: the orange +N badges show how many people each hides
Two branches folded: the orange +N badges show how many people each hides
The Branches menu
The Branches menu
One tree hidden with its eye
One tree hidden with its eye
On a computer

Click a person, then press − to fold their branch, + to open it, or * to open every branch.

A forest is read-only

You cannot edit in a forest view. To change a person, open their own tree.

Seeing and changing a person's connections

Tap the little gold chain on a person (or press and hold a person, then Connections). A list shows each tree the person is also in, what each shows, and:

A person's connections: which tree, and what each shows
A person's connections: which tree, and what each shows

Disconnecting deletes nobody. It only stops the two trees being shown together.

Removing a connection

You can take a connection away whenever you like.

  1. Open the tree and find the linked person (they have the little gold chain). Press and hold them, or click them on a computer, and choose Connections.

  2. The list shows each tree the person is connected to. Tap Disconnect beside the one you want to remove.

  3. Confirm "Disconnect … from …? Nothing in either tree is deleted."

Who can find my trees?

By default, nobody can find your trees by searching. If you want relatives to ask to connect, switch on Let relatives find this tree by name tree by tree, in the gear at the top of the tree. A person who searches then sees only a name, a birth year and, if you ticked it, the tree name. Nothing is connected unless you accept their request.

Profile and settings, Connected trees: what you show by default, and the link to your requests
Profile and settings, Connected trees: what you show by default, and the link to your requests

Live updates

You do not need to refresh. When someone asks to connect, answers your request, or changes a tree connected to yours, a notice appears at the bottom and the forest on your screen updates.

"A connected family tree was updated" appears at the bottom of the forest
"A connected family tree was updated" appears at the bottom of the forest

Private things stay private: the notice names a tree only if you can open that tree.

Try it yourself

  1. If you have two trees that share a person, connect them. Tick only Photo and leave Full name unticked, so only the first word of the name is shown.
  2. Open the Forests page and open the forest. Tap legend chips to light up one tree, or several.
  3. Open the person's Connections and untick Photo.

Remember

  • A connection joins what you see. Nothing is merged and nobody can edit the other tree.
  • Another family's tree needs their approval.
  • By default only a first name is shown, and your tree's name is hidden.
  • You can disconnect at any time.